Use flirty humor
The first thing to do when creating an online swinger dating profile is to create an easy-to-remember username that is also attractive. Look at a few other profiles and you’ll soon notice that far too many are quite mundane and unoriginal. You need to make yours different in a memorable way so that it stands out from the crowd.
In face-to-face encounters, an irresistible smile and a flirtatious game are the main things that attract swingers to each other. Online communication works in exactly the same way and the profiles written for this purpose will be the ones that attract people. Just like nobody wants to date or flirt with boring and serious people most of the time; Nobody wants to read online dating profiles that are boring and humorless.
Describe the swingers you want to meet
Consider in detail the type of swingers you want to meet, and then describe them in your profile. This doesn’t mean you have to be really picky. The danger of being too selective is that you will end up excluding people with whom you would otherwise have enjoyed a very good relationship. For example, if you’re a single man with a profile that specifies that he’s only interested in meeting single women, you’ll miss out on some great threesomes with partners who would also have turned out to be the swinger’s most likely source of introductions. Party scene for you.
Be especially careful not to make a list of what you don’t like. Profiles that do are a huge turn off for everyone reading them and not just the people the list is for.
Include your swinger lifestyle experiences
It’s important to include your swinger lifestyle experiences in your online profile, but the worst thing you can do is claim experiences you’ve never had or make wild exaggerations. Profiles that make up or exaggerate experiences are usually pretty easy to see, but even when created, others will expect you to live up to the experience described, and fictitious claims have a nasty habit of falling apart in face-to-face meetings.
Even if you haven’t had any experience with the lifestyle, it’s better to say so than not to say anything. In reality, there are plenty of swingers who are drawn to the idea of having sex with a complete lifestyle newbie. Every swinger was a newbie at some point!
Includes sexual fantasies as well
Swingers want to know about your sexual fantasies as well as your real life experiences, so be sure to include some in your online profile. In addition to ensuring the exclusion of any fantasies that might suggest illegal sexual acts, the only note of caution here is to leave out any fantasies that are generally considered distasteful within the swinger lifestyle community.
read before posting
Before you post a swinger dating profile online, take some time to consider it from the reader’s point of view. Imagine that you are the reader, a person (or couple) who has never met you. Ask yourself how that person could imagine you. Does he appear self-assured, arrogant, or reserved? Can you imagine a playful, creepy, boring or serious person? Do you sound honest, insincere, or unreliable, etc.?
essential photography
Online profiles that don’t have photos rarely attract anyone’s interest, so it’s essential that you include one. Make sure you get a good full face and body shot and avoid obscene and obnoxious images at all costs. It never ceases to amaze me how many men seem to believe that a close up of their penis is the type of profile picture that will attract women. The mockery and ridicule are all those unpleasant photos that are received.
Swinger couple profiles
Swinger couples create joint online profiles. The ideal is to project an image of a happy couple who will be fun to be with. It is essential for couples to create their profiles together as a couple and it is a great idea to have fun while creating it. Compiling a profile while engaging in foreplay can be a real turn-on, which is likely to come through when the profile is read later.
It’s a good idea to feature private bedroom adventures as well as your experiences as swingers. Write about your relationship with each other and explain how and why you decided to get into the swinger lifestyle. This is exactly what other couples want to read when looking for swing partners.
As in the case of singles, it is essential that swinger couples profiles include photos and these, ideally, should be of both members of the couple. If only one photo of the couple is included, make sure it is one of the female partner. Couple profiles featuring a photograph of the male partner only Never attract a lot of positive responses. Most people viewing such a profile will jump to the conclusion that if the woman exists, she is likely a passive or involuntary participant in the swinger relationship!
A special note for single men.
Single men need to understand that most women (whether single or in a couple) who use swinger dating sites crave adventure and excitement. Self-confidence, masculinity, humor mixed with a degree of mystery are the kind of qualities that the male profile needs to project to satisfy this longing. Pretending to be the nice guy they get to meet every day is not the best way to attract such women.
Sometimes men using swinger dating sites may need to remind themselves that they are not looking for romance or conventional dating, long-term relationships. If your profile ends up suggesting this, you may not get much of a response. On the other hand, it’s also important not to emphasize the purely sexual side of things to the point where the profile sounds like a crude and immature rant.
Communicate your sexual attractiveness in the most natural way possible and avoid bragging about having incredible sexual stamina. A long-lasting repeater is more likely to be viewed by most women as a potential source of vaginal pain than as a bringer of ecstatic pleasure.
Online profiles for swinger lifestyle women
Most of what has been said above applies in one way or another to the online profiles of single women. The main additional point to note is that as a single woman, your photo will be the first thing other swingers will look at. Therefore, it is essential that you do it right. Never use an old photo and don’t be afraid of overtly sexual, vulgar or even sexually explicit shots. You’re posing for swinger lifestyle contacts, not romantic LTRs! Dress (or undress) to get excited and just draw the line in those silly gyno close-ups you sometimes see on female swinger online dating profiles.