Let me tell you about one of the biggest nightmares you can encounter when a man tries to make a connection with a woman while trying to pick her up.
It starts this way. You are talking to a cute young lady and you can feel the sexual sparks fly. You have a good feeling that he likes you. Then suddenly something changes.
You can tell by the worried expression on his face. Start asking a question in a very serious tone. “How old are you anyway?”
You are not sure how to answer. You know that you are a little older than this hot young lady. Answer with her actual age and can tell that she doesn’t like your answer. “You’re too old for me. I just don’t like guys who are much older than me. Sorry.”
All your interaction with her ends abruptly. He is not exactly sure what the correct answer would have been. You don’t want to lie about your age. That’s ridiculous and it’s very easy to get caught.
On top of that, you know that because of your age you have something much deeper to offer than a young guy who doesn’t know what he’s doing in the bedroom. If only you could make her see things in this light.
Obviously this is a big kick for your ego, but it doesn’t have to be. In fact, when framed the right way, you can flip the switch and increase his desire for you. It all depends on how you handle your response.
If you ever want the opportunity to do it with a much younger woman, you need to know how to set this framework. You need to know how to handle questions about your age.
If you do, you can date women much, much younger than you.
I am attracted to women who are older and younger than me. But the game is different with younger women. You have to know how to handle both sides of the age spectrum.
So let me teach you a secret that will help you handle any younger girl’s age objection. This secret will allow you to quickly turn your concern about your age into attraction.
To really understand the secret and make the most of it, you need to understand something important about female psychology and the question of age.
For most guys, age is not a big problem. In fact, like good wine, men are often considered to improve with age.
But this is simply not true for women. Society views a woman’s age as a time bomb. Now, to be fair, I am personally totally attracted to older women and I find society’s views on a woman’s age ridiculous. Just say.
But sadly, that’s not the way our culture works. For women, age is one of the most important aspects of their existence. The appearance and aging of two women are the same.
I’m sure as a man you understand that it is considered rude to ask a woman her age. Have you ever thought why this is considered so rude?
Because women are very aware of their age. They don’t want to admit how old they really are. When women think of their age, they are thinking of a giant clock that does nothing more than count down how long they will go from looking hot to not.
And the fact of the matter is, there is some truth to why they feel that way. I’m not saying it’s correct, I’m just saying it’s evolution.
As a woman ages, she knows that her ability to give birth decreases. She knows that as she gets older, men will not find her so attractive.
Just take a moment and think about how many older women are actually considered sex symbols. The truth is that there is not much. In fact, most of the time, when you look at an older woman who is still attractive, you unconsciously say to yourself “she must have been very hot when she was young.” Sad but true.
For my part, I find this attitude disgusting. But sadly, I don’t represent the whole of society.
Now, take a moment and think about the older male sex symbols. Brad Pitt is in his 40s, as is George Clooney, but women still find these guys super attractive.
And the interesting thing is that most women don’t even think about how old these guys are. Your age is not an issue. They are hot and their age is just not part of the equation.
So the point you need to take seriously is that when it comes to the question of age, keep the ground higher. Your age shouldn’t be a problem.
How do I know that her age should be important when interacting with a woman? Because I’ve had women who were 20 years younger than me and they choose to sleep with me, cook me, clean me, and entertain me.
What you have to understand is that when a woman mentions your age, she is unconsciously concerned about her age. When she is breaking your chops about how old you are, it means that she is very aware of how old she is getting.
To put it simply, her age is a bigger problem for her than yours is for her.
So let’s get back to how you handle this. Try responding with something like “my age? You are the one who is too old for me. You must be like 88 years old.”
Sit back and watch your reaction. She will ask what you mean by “chick years.”
Tell him that most women peak around the age of 21. When women turn 23, they are already on the way to decline. They go to the territory of the old women. This should be considered old. Ask her if she’s already wearing granny panties.
Most likely, he will reply laughing. This is the exact answer you want. By teasing her, you have let her know that you are aware of her own insecurities.
This tease actually shows that you “get it.” And it should reassure her with you.
When you combine this with the fact that you make fun of her, you become the prize. You have completely rethought the age question. And now he wants to show you that he is “young.”
This is the perfect way to take it to your bedroom. She will want to show you that she is not older and that she is still a lot of fun.