Retired and watching pornography: pornography and the elderly

It’s easy to think of Grandma and Grandpa as wrinkled and old. Too old to enjoy or even think about sex. But, most older people will tell you that their minds are still active and they are actively thinking about sex.

Sure, muscles can become weak and bones can become stiff and painful, but the mind can imagine almost anything. And, there is no limitation to the thoughts and memories of the elders.

Grandparents, like teenagers, think that sex is okay. And, in our modern society, many tech-savvy grandparents use the Internet for more than just looking up clam chowder recipes. Seniors often turn to the internet for companionship after their partner passes away. And, just like young people, they can become addicted to Internet pornography.

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Internet porn sites are easy to find and many are free. And, especially older men, they are quick to take advantage of the variety of Internet pornography available today.

Since many porn sites are free, they are easily within the budget of older men receiving a pension or Social Security. These sites offer an ever-changing variety that will appeal to the male brain.

From the male perspective, variety is the spice of life. The male quickly tires after intercourse with a single female. Just like reading the same old women’s magazine over and over again is just plain boring.

But, the Internet is a completely different matter. A male will quickly revive when presented with a new female. This variety is what makes Internet porn sites so stimulating and addictive for men. A new scene with new actors is introduced to keep the male viewers excited and glued to the screen.

Grandpa can become so quickly addicted to Internet pornography that he neglects household duties, social obligations, and simply reclines in his chair in front of a computer screen.

And, variety can mean watching hardcore and violent pornography on paid sites. This can easily deplete Grandpa’s savings and suck up the money she should be using for food, medicine, and clothing.

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Some grannies are attracted to porn sites designed for women. And, some sites designed for older women are available. But perhaps, like many women, most tech-savvy grandmothers like to talk. You can find many senior chat rooms online. And many elderly widows use chat rooms to talk to men. After all, what else is there to do during the day than engage in interesting conversations with men of the same age?

In faceless and anonymous chat rooms, people often reveal personal things beyond what they had revealed to their spouse within their marriages. A strong bond is produced. Often, the talks revolve around feelings of loneliness and the need for company. And this can easily lead to talking about sex. And, most women prefer this to viewing real porn sites. Better than reading romance novels, talking to a real person is often more exciting.

Objective, talk often leads to action. And meeting “friends” made in chat rooms is normal. Sometimes these meetings result in a great relationship. But, no matter how much conversation you’ve had, you don’t really know who is on the other end of the conversation. You could be talking to an abuser who is seducing you with words you want to hear.

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While age should endow one with some wisdom, the Internet is often so new and novel that older people lose their sense of perspective. Just as young men and women can be drawn to the Internet with its sex and social sites, so can older people. The brain’s pleasure centers and neurotransmitters like dopamine and serotonin work in the same way, and it’s just as easy to become addicted to internet sex.

Seniors should be careful when using the Internet, especially when it comes to building relationships.

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