The world of female advice is a beautiful thing. And when it comes to certain topics like whether or not a dress suits you, whether you should tone down your makeup, or whether you really should go from blonde to brunette, then there’s no doubt you can get more. valuable insights from a woman than from a man.
But the honest truth is that when it comes to relationships, taking advice from your friends is the WORST thing you can do!
How? Don’t they have good intentions? Aren’t they trying to help?
They sure are. But the problem is that female advice on the topic of dating always seems to assume a couple of things as the given truth.
1/ The friend KNOWS precisely WHY she separated from her boyfriend.
2/ It was probably YOUR fault.
3/ By addressing the ‘problem’, you can help her get back together with him.
Unfortunately, this is all false.
Most of the time, the reason the woman THINK was the reason the guy broke up with her is not actually the real reason. She may think these are deep communication issues, and he may have told her so. But guess what ladies. She was probably lying! He was probably fed up with your scolding and not attracted enough to you to take it.
What about 2/? Maybe, maybe not. It takes two to tango. Women always assume the guy was the scumbag when it comes to their friends. Who is very loyal, but very useless. If you never face the truth, how can you face it? And that is precisely what you must do right now if you ever hope to get it back.
And finally, ‘addressing the problem’ usually comes down to the woman wanting to talk about her ‘feelings’ with the guy.
What is all that? Have women never met men?
Honestly, that’s the last thing we want to do.
So when it comes to relationships, ditch the advice of your girlfriends and start listening to the advice of men. It will certainly be harder, less fluffy, and the opposite of what you want to hear. But it’s more likely to be true, and it may just help you get your ex back.