A man who suddenly tells a woman that he is breaking up with her is one of those horrible dating scenarios. The woman has every right to cry and lock herself in her room during this time. But more than just getting depressed and doing nothing, there are more fruitful ways a girl can do to get her man to stay.
Look back and remember the things you said you hate …
… and live to change them all. It takes a lot for a man to open up and tell you these things. Most of them would just keep quiet about this and leave. If you were honest enough to mention what you need to improve on, then you need to pay attention to it.
Be there even when you say you are leaving.
Let him be when he asks to be left alone, but let him feel like you’re still around if he ever needs you. Let your man feel like you’re not about to go anywhere yet, but don’t give him the impression that you’re desperate either.
I let it go.
Holding on to your man will only make the situation worse. If he asks to have some alone time or just to go over to his friends’ house, let him go. Sometimes men just need a little air to cope with stress in a relationship. Once he feels that you are mature enough to let go, he will definitely think ten times before letting go.
Never take it for granted, again.
If he says he’s willing to give your relationship another chance, then you need to make sure you take care of him this time. Give him the things he really deserves, like burning passion, love, and most of all, respect.
Don’t worry about so many things.
Women have the tendency to become whiny and whiny. They tend to make mountains out of the little grains of sand in their lives. If you want a man to stay with you, this is not the way you should handle things. Have one more gram of patience and that will go a long way.
Don’t ask him to change.
A man will never want to be told what to do. So if you want your relationship to improve and if you want him to be by your side all the time, make sure you let him be himself. Never make him your idea of an ideal man.
Be your own version of a sex goddess.
Men love to have sex and that is why you have to take advantage of this truth to keep them. He can be a seductress when in bed with him, don’t be afraid to explore. Let their fantasies come true for you.