Do you know how to turn a crush into love? Would you like to take your relationship to the next level? Would you like to turn a flirtation into lasting love? It’s easier than you think if you do these three things that will turn your crush into love.
Subtlety Let him know you are interested
You might be having a crush fest with a guy, but you and he don’t know how to take it any further. Guys are just as afraid of being rejected as women. That’s why some of them are hesitant to take the next step to ask for a date.
However, if you let him know that you are open to a deeper relationship with subtle hints, he will have no reason to be afraid to ask you out.
Casually talk about a movie coming out and mention that you want to see it. Tell him about a great club you’ve heard of that you’d like to check out. Remind him of an upcoming sporting event you’re both interested in.
Remember, you don’t want to ask him out. You just want to give him an opportunity that he can stop by to ask you out on a date without fear of rejection.
Show him you like him – warts and all
None of us are perfect and men can be just as critical of themselves as women. Act as if you find their minor flaws attractive. Share some of your own personal shortcomings so he realizes that he is not alone and that you are just as flawed as he is. Embrace your blemishes and hers and let her know you like her, warts and all. Take your shortcomings lightly and explore how you can help each other turn bad habits or behaviors into positive assets. And by doing this together in a playful way, you can quickly take the feelings of a crush and turn them into love.
Don’t rush to the bedroom
It’s easy to be tempted to up the ante on your relationship by sleeping together, but that just puts pressure on both of you that you don’t need if you want your crush to turn into love. By sleeping together too quickly, instead of crush turning into love, it can easily turn into lust. And early lust is not automatically a springboard to love. Develop your common interests. Enjoy shared experiences. Become his friend before you become his lover. Anticipation is a great aphrodisiac that can help you get to know each other better and develop deeper feelings. This way, when you finally have sex, it will be more meaningful. As anyone can tell you, great sex, even great sex, is always better when you have it with someone you love.
With a little patience, time, care, and sharing, you can easily turn a crush into love.
