I have been working in some capacity since I was twelve years old. I started out delivering neighborhood papers, was a stock clerk at a local children’s clothing store, and did various jobs throughout college. I started working full time when I graduated in 1970 and have been working ever since. My last job lasted almost 25 years. Since college, I’ve been in advertising and marketing, which coincided with my degree. It had its ups and downs, but for the most part it was financially rewarding and emotionally satisfying. Every work day, I would get up and think about what the business world would hold for me in the next few hours. For the most part, it was something I looked forward to.
But there were other factors involved. My coworkers were also my friends, to a large extent. Many were people I socialized with. Then there were the working conditions. This company provided the latest computers and internet access, fax machines, and my cell phone. It had a nice office with a view from the third floor, a dining room, and covered parking. I received a generous car allowance and many other benefits. Because I was in commissioned sales, I was often given bonuses or “spiffs” as incentives along with prizes and trips to places like Hawaii for outstanding performance. I had a great compensation package that included all my insurance, 401K, and pension plans. You could say that I was spoiled and had nothing to complain about and you would be right.
So why was he afraid of work on certain days? Sure, she had to go to mandatory meetings all day where she listened to statistical reports that were boring to death, but so what? Many employees are dragged into meetings. Other days, I had to deal with irate customers or long trips to customers who rarely bought anything. However, all of that is part of a seller’s lot. So why were there days when she wanted to do anything but go to work? Okay, I’m a bit of a crybaby, but who isn’t? So back to my topic, what are the real warning signs that maybe it’s time for a change of scenery?
It’s more than being afraid of meetings, facing your boss, or hoping for better pay. It’s an attitude. Here are some basic warning signs that may make you reconsider your job.
It’s time to quit your job when…
(1) You start having anxiety attacks when you just think about having to go to work.
(2) You constantly complain about the slightest work-related problem to friends, family, or anyone who pays attention to you.
(3) Nights and weekends are the only times you seem genuinely happy.
(4) You notice that you have more and more illnesses that prevent you from working, or
(5) You have frequent headaches in the workplace.
(6) Find excuses to fight with your coworkers.
(7) He has bad thoughts about his boss.
(8) You feel the company for the sole reason that it is there.
(9) Make up reasons why the product or service you sell is defective.
(10) Work is never satisfying on any level.
(11) While driving to work, you make up reasons why this day will be the worst day of your life.
(12) You are convinced that a vengeful God placed you in this position.
The bottom line is that there is no use being miserable. Just as if you were in a lousy marriage, it’s time to consider divorcing, in this case, your job. You are probably thinking that this is easier said than done. You’re right, but life is too short to be stuck in a place you hate. It’s time to grab the classifieds and rethink your future. You’ll be happier, you’ll be less sick, and you’ll have more to look forward to every day. Remember, there is always a better job somewhere waiting for you if you are willing to look for it.