As the weather gets colder, it’s important to keep each other warm. Here are five hot and sexy delights that will send you and/or your lover through the roof with pleasure!
1. Hot oil treatment:
Heat some massage oil, either in an oil heater or 15 seconds in the microwave. Give your partner a hot oil massage. If you use a real massage oil, it shouldn’t stain your bedding. Make sure you have 2 fluffy pillows; one for his head and one for his feet. Use long, smooth strokes as you work your lover’s back and front. Avoid points that are too ticklish, though a little laughter can lift both of your moods. Ask if you can massage her most sensitive areas.
2. Hot Tub Action: Why not play in your hot tub if you have one? Warm water can be very sensual. If you don’t have one, run a nice hot bath with some sexy bath bubbles. Kiss while pouring warm water on each other. If your bathtub is small, you can place a towel over the edge and sit down, bending down to touch every part of him or her. Find some creative positions in the tub, just remember non-slip tub grips can help too!
3. Hot Chocolate Surprise: Here’s one: take some hot chocolate and marshmallows to bed with you! Or melt your favorite chocolate bar for a minute in the microwave. Spray it on your lover and then lick each other! Make sure it is melted but not boiling. Try some less obvious places like the shoulder or collarbone. Eat your way, as most men and women report that oral pleasure is the best form of pleasure.
4. Hot Wax: If you like to drip and play, try dripping some hot wax on each other. Use white candles as they don’t burn as well. Try dripping on your arm first, to make sure one or both of you like the feeling. It’s important to communicate with each other during this activity and a new use for all those extra white birthday candles!
5. Hot Towel Treatments: One of the best things to do before and after sex play is to use hot wet or dry towels to clean up. Have extra towels and cloths near the bed or play area. Run two towels through hot water, as hot as you can stand. Drain them and then take them to your lover. Give him a hot towel on his face and another on the rest of his body. It feels as good as goosebumps!
It’s always great to add variety to your sex life. Whatever you want, do it again. What you don’t like, throw it down the drain with the bathwater. These little touches can keep things fresh and fun for everyone!
