Everything hits you like a ton of bricks. And things got very ugly quickly. Words were said that your grandmother would be ashamed to hear you say. Your girlfriend left and now you regret everything that happened. You are left with a single thought, “Does she still love me?”
If you just went through a breakup and are desperate to find a way to get your ex girlfriend to accept you, then this article can help. Read to the end to find out the signs that she still loves you and she may be willing to give you another chance.
Now pay attention. This is important. Before you can answer the question “Does she still love me?” you will need to create space and time away from you. This usually means 2-3 weeks of no contact. Until some of the emotions die down from the breakup and she’s had time to think things through, you won’t be able to say anything.
Next, pay close attention to your actions. Than she does for itself is more important than how it reacts to what you do. In other words, you are looking to see if she He is the one who initiates the contact.
If she’s really the one making the effort to get in touch with you, even if it’s just to talk about the weather, then there’s a good chance she still has feelings for you. Missing you makes her want to see what you’re doing.
The next thing to pay attention to is invitations. Does your ex girlfriend still ask you out to do things? Does she ever ask you to come over or does she ask if she can come see you? Maybe even add the “but only as friends” caveat.
If he’s still trying to include you in his life, then he’s definitely not over you. There is still love circling in her heart that you can tap into and use to win her back. The words “just as friends” are often your girlfriend’s way of letting herself out if something doesn’t go her way. It helps him justify in her own mind that it’s “okay” for her to see you.
Again, this is a much stronger signal if she is the one doing the asking. If you’re the one making all the invitations and she agrees to talk to you or see you, then she may just be trying to be friendly. But if she’s the one trying hard, then that’s a good sign that she still loves you.
You may also be wondering, “Does he still love me if he’s dating someone else or asks me if I’m dating someone else?” Most likely it will. A rebound relationship may be your way of coping with loss. Likewise, if she asks you about other relationships, she’s probably trying to gauge how you still feel about her.