- Salwar designer suits and amazing sarees, check it out!
- Well-planned wedding keychain – check it out!
- Designer Bridal Lehenga Choli – check!
- Other fashion outfits and outfits to die for, check it out!
- The latest in costume jewelery and elegant accessories – check it out!
- Beauty and makeup appointments – check!
Everything ready for the wedding of your dreams!
However, after countless beauty sessions and dress arrangements, why aren’t you still looking radiant? What’s stopping you?
In fact, what stops us all from looking our best, even when we spend so much time, money and effort getting expensive dresses and tedious designs / tailoring, not to mention expensive beauty treatments? Why after putting so much into maintaining our hoity-toity lifestyle, don’t we see a happy, glowing image staring at us from our mirrors?
The answer is in 7 vital aspects that relate to looking and feeling good, and it is NOT about how and what you dress!
1. A beautiful mind and a generous heart
Your inner beauty is reflected in your outer beauty. This axiom is an extension of the integral law of nature. You can’t look cool if you are an angry, cruel, unhappy, suspicious, and negative person. You need to ‘give’ to feel the joy of giving. You need to be ‘positive’ to feel the joy of positivity. And you have to be beautiful on the inside, to look radiant on the outside.
2. Self confidence and faith
An insecure person is never happy. Inner strength and faith are reflected in the way you behave and look at the world. If you are sure of yourself, your beauty, your choices, your life ahead, your abilities, you will be more relaxed, you will be happier and it will show. Your self-confidence will help you make the right decisions and stay calm in case of confusion or problems. Lack of self-confidence will show on your face and the way you carry yourself, even on your D-day.
Still worried about why everything seems to be going crazy? Have faith in God, in cosmic forces, and in your (possible) partner, your parents, and yourself.
3. A great smile
Smile a lot, it doesn’t cost anything! Really, this is the key to the treasure of happiness. A charming, willing smile that treats everyone the same is the key to good looks, a cheerful personality, healthy relationships, and a vibrant social circle. Everyone’s life is made up of ups and downs. But that shouldn’t stop you from smiling and being friendly to the world around you. Smiling releases stress and bonds. A natural smile erases stress, grudges, and anger. So you may be busy and tied down, but don’t hold back that smile. Not even on your wedding day!
Get professional dental work done, if your dental hygiene, bad breath, or any other oral problem bothers you. But do not run after too many procedures, targeting perception, that too at the last minute. Remember, your partner fell in love only with your imperfect smile!
Four. Good posture
The way you stand, sit, and behave in general says a lot about you as a person, your confidence, and your belief in yourself. Also, any outfit looks great on a person, who stands tall (regardless of actual height), walks in a balanced manner, and is serene and smooth. A bulging tummy (due to poor posture) or rounded, hunched shoulders will spoil even the best of dresses, be it a stylish designer saree or a stylish modern salwar suit. Work on your posture.
* Star Tip: Keep some bound books on your head (2 or 3 will do, or 1 heavy will work too), don’t hold them and now try walking without dropping them. Initially, this will be a difficult task and it will get easier as you practice.
5. Physical aptitude
Tomes have been written on the importance of fitness and exercise. This is a non-negotiable look to look good and feel good. The simplest clothes look great on fit bodies! Fitness greatly increases your confidence, mental clarity, and overall happiness. Exercise releases happy hormones; makes you more balanced and cheerful. Do you need more motivation to start a serious, long-term fitness practice? Read on the Internet, talk to your partner, and get in touch with fitter people.
However, remember that your physical condition is NOT your weight. Don’t aim for so-called short-term quick-fix plans, which will rob you of the glitz and charm.
Worrying about weight problems right before the wedding is useless. His partner said “yes”, looking at his current weight. What if your future boyfriend / girlfriend sarcastically persuades you to “lose weight”? Well, reconsider your decision, we say!
6. Healthy Skin and Hair
Your dress looks perfect with well-applied, coordinated makeup. For that, however, you need the most important foundation, your skin, to be taut, shiny, and blemish-free. It is indisputably true that radiant, clear skin goes a long way towards ensuring a flawless appearance. Ask those who have been blessed with naturally excellent skin; They will tell you that they will not change the world for him!
Unfortunately, not everyone is gifted with great skin. Fortunately, we have access to tons of skin care products. Also, use proven home remedies to your advantage. Avoid direct sun. Sleep well. Eat well. Clean well.
The same goes for hair. Your hair is your supreme glory. If you dye your hair, be especially careful. Avoid harsh treatments, just before the wedding. Treat split ends and dryness from hair loss.
Take vitamin supplements for hair, nails and skin, after consulting with your doctor. Treat acne and blemishes, only under the care of a skilled dermatologist.
7. Good general health and a balanced diet.
Last but certainly not least, the most important aspect that goes beyond your wedding or the days that are in preparation for it! Inculcate the habit of maintaining good health and a diet for life. This is not something whose result you can reap in a short time. But yes, your wedding is a good starting point, if you haven’t already.
Always follow the basic rules of good health (not until late at night, light dinners, fresh food, regular check-ups, immediate medical attention) and drink plenty of water, maintain good digestion, stay away from junk / processed food, have a balanced diet etc. Stay away from fast diets, in your last minute attempt to lose weight.
If you suffer from a health problem, get a resolution and a proper diagnosis. Do not hide your medical conditions, especially congenital and inherited diseases, from your potential spouse and in-laws. Address hormonal problems like hypothyroidism promptly. Perform the combination of the Rh factor for you and your boyfriend / girlfriend. Seek full premarital counseling with a trained physician and psychologist.
Once you do all of this, go ahead and wear that special dress. Look in the mirror with your head held high. Smile to yourself. Close your eyes and be grateful. Appreciate your radiant self!
And now let’s make a new wedding checklist:
- Have faith in God and your loved ones.
- Smile! Smile all the time, you are getting married, ????
- Avoid negativity, insecurities, and fear.
- Stop being a bridezzela NOW!
- Respect the opinions of others.
- Say thank you and sorry, what matters.
- Connect!
- Be confident, but not overconfident!
- Stop comparing your wedding and future spouse to your friend’s.
- Stop intriguing and stop worrying.
- Play with the children in your neighborhood.
- Take care of your physical condition, skin and diet.
- Take a break from work, possibly a couple of weeks before your wedding.
- Don’t go out in the extreme sun; Avoid swimming too, if you can.
- Work on your posture, personality, and general health.
- Take supplements, after consulting a good doctor.
- Set aside an amount from your wedding budget to spend on a children’s home.
- Volunteer to help your mom, your mother-in-law, or anyone else who is usually overworked.
- Let it go!
- Meditate, listen to music, and just relax.
- Always invest in classics; buy good quality things!
