You are worried. You think your boy may have been unfaithful. He has been acting strange. Heck, he’s even started dressing better than ever. One of the most common signs that he is cheating is a drastic wardrobe change. If he’s a guy in a T-shirt and jeans on Monday, and a man in a three-piece suit on Tuesday, something could be rotten in Denmark. One of the first ways a man tries to impress a woman is through the clothes he wears. Women often believe in the old adage that the clothes make the man. If your man feels disrespected or taken for granted, he knows it and works on his wardrobe to try to get attention outside of the relationship.
If you’re looking for signs that you’re cheating, you need look no further than the shirt on your back. Sure, he could just be dressing up for work so he can get promoted and bring home more money. He might also be tired of the way he’s always dressed and is just looking for something new. This is also a sign of a man who is going through a mid-life crisis. But you know your man better than anyone. If you think that he displays other behaviors that are in line with infidelity, then his changing clothes may be one of the signs that he is cheating on you.
Don’t forget that the underlying reason your man is showing signs of cheating on you is because he doesn’t feel admired. Men crave admiration and respect from the women in their lives. When a man feels, rightly or wrongly, that he is no longer the apple of his lady’s eye, he will give you some clues. He may tell you more often how hard he works or that he feels slighted at work. Perhaps he will continue to remind you of his contributions. Some men will even repeatedly ask if there is anything you need them to do.
These are all signs that he simply wants to know that you still admire and respect what he does for you and your family. Daily, tell him how strong he is. Put a little note in her lunchbox telling her you respect everything he does. In many cases, these small steps are all it takes to stop the signs that he is cheating and restore the passion and trust you once had.
