When a relationship ends, it feels like the end of the world. You know, in your heart, that you belong to each other, and you can’t understand why it had to end. Stop trying to figure it out; chances are you never will. When you want to know how to win back your true love, start thinking about this…
Relationships often fall apart. There is no ‘one-size-fits-all’ reason for separation, as there is no ‘one-size-fits-all’ ideal relationship. Everybody is different, therefore every relationship is different.
If you’re having a hard time accepting the breakup, then think of it this way: Everyone needs a break from each other, right? That’s why vacations were ‘invented’. Sometimes the whole family goes together, but often just one person goes. Just to escape, time for themselves. If you can think of your relationship in this way, it will be much easier for you.
To get your true love back, you need to be honest, both with yourself and with your ex. If your love is really true, then you two will get back together. You can’t rush things.
Don’t try to get your ex to talk if they don’t want to. Instead, just say “hi” to them when you see them. When you can say ‘hello’ to each other without looking at each other, then you know that the feelings of anger and hurt have passed, and now you can start talking to him or her.
Now you can “up the ante,” so to speak. When you say ‘hello’ next time, ask them how they are. Let your ex know that you still care about him. Let them know that he is still there for them, if they need to talk or just need a friend.
Talk about things going on in the city or about the weather – talk about what you both like and NEVER try to bring up your past relationship. As you talk about the things you both enjoy, you’ll find that you both want to be in each other’s company more and more. Instead of asking your ex out on a date, why not just take a walk in the park, or enjoy coffee or something together, during the day and in a very public place?
This will keep you both relaxed – your ex won’t think you’re trying to force them back together and you’ll have a chance to be together. She enjoys every moment the two spend together. The better they feel about each other, the more they will want to be together.
As the saying goes, ‘true love prevails’. This couldn’t be more true, although it may not feel like it right now. When you want your true love back, keep this in mind, it really IS true love, you will be together again. Maybe not immediately, but you will. Then they can spend the rest of their lives together and happily together.
